Becky Romero's Blog: Strippings, Spankings and a Whole Lot of Shame (mostly mine): Izabel Laxamana

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"Because of what he perceived to be my 'impertinent' attitude, arguing, disrespect, sassing back, poor behavior, mediocre grades, wearing clothing or swimwear deemed too tight or too revealing, often breaking curfew and engaging in quite a lot of shall I just call it 'extracurricular activity' with numerous boyfriends, my stepdad started to spank me when I was 16 - and he did so on my completely exposed bare-bottom!

"I was then regularly spanked that way regardless of whom was present - including my brothers, extended family, neighbors or guests. It was especially quite humbling for me when boys who were several or more years younger than me - including relatives, friends of my younger brother and some of whom I routinely babysat - were present to witness me being bared (often from head to toe) and then soundly spanked.

"While I absolutely hated it, from my personal experiences I cannot in the slightest dispute the assertion that no punishment is more effective to give to an impertinent, bratty, disrespectful, thinks she 'knows-it-all' teenage girl than to quickly reduce her to the modesty-is-irrelevant status of a totally bared, soundly spanked, crying and very quite ashamed of herself preschooler in front of others."

I am also very quite ashamed to admit that I've discovered much to my embarrassment that such discipline continues to be quite effective on me - even now in my 20s ! - as my aunt decided that when I've had to stay at her house I am not to be any more immune from being spanked than her own teenage daughters. I have been and continue to be subject to such punishment in my bare shame and being fully on display - undressed and then taken over her knee in the living room no matter whatever family or guests happen to be present.

They say a little humility is good for the soul. And I can surely attest to that fact. As a college grad to have my panties taken down in front of my younger male cousins, to stand there fully exposed while apologizing for my transgressions and then hear them continue to giggle and snicker as they watch me being soundly spanked is a very humbling experience indeed.

Becky Romero

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