Apr 13, 2014

Teenage Girl Punished Dressed Like Child

"A teenage girl who behaves like a child should be dressed like a child."
That's what a reader wrote on my blog, making me blush as I read it, as I recalled an embarrassing weekend. Having your bottom bared for a spanking as a teenager was bad enough, but these parents felt that punishment needed something else to be even more effective.
"Teenage girls need an occasional session in which they're reduced to the status of a little girl."
That's what one father, freebooter48, wrote on the Experience Project. Again, my face involuntarily blushed as past embarrassments flashed before my eyes. I protested, but it was freebooter48 who found agreement from others, not me.
"The principle that if you behave like a little girl you will be treated like a little girl should be upheld." [- HighStandards]
Surely, I countered, that would at least not apply as part of the punishment given to a grad student in a hypothetical situation: (but which I left unsaid, as I was first too embarrassed to admit it, had actually been in REALITY for me) having helped her younger teenage cousin break curfew and then getting caught lying about it all while having previously agreed to being subject to her aunt's house rules while staying there, which also included being spanked. One of the responses left a lump in my throat, a clear-cut independent confirmation that my aunt had indeed punished me justly.
"Her cousin acted immaturely for her age. [But] the grad student acted even more immaturely for her age, she should wear a t-shirt meant for a younger girl and little girl panties and nothing else. The panties should be small enough so everyone can see that she was spanked. If she violates the dress code, she would lose the panties. It doesn't matter if there are guests around. She should have thought of that before lying. When she goes out, the t-shirt can be long enough to cover her panties part of the way." [- powerman2000]
As I gasped and continued reading, he continued:
"And no bra. Bras are a privilege reserved for big girls."
When I read that all I could think was how my aunt told me in front of my young male cousins, as I stood there bottomless in just my bra, before my spanking:
"If you want to behave like a little girl you will be treated like one. And do little girls have any need to wear a bra?"
As I meekly answered, "No", she unclasped my bra and pulled it off to the giggles of the boys standing in front of me, adding:
"Maybe a little embarrassment will do you some good."
My punishment went beyond just the bare bottom spankings, however. (Yes, I received a number of them while I stayed there - and yes, in full view of the boys.). And being made to dress like I was a little girl again was part of it.

(This was not to be the first time I had been punished like this. But at least the previous time happened when I was a teenager. This time I was in my twenties taking grad school classes, making it all the more mortifying!)

The morning after one spanking I woke up to find all the clothes (both outerwear and undies) I had brought with me gone.

All I had to wear was the thin nightie that I had be given to put on the preceding evening(immediately after another spanking) and that barely went below my navel, leaving nothing else to the imagination. It was with only that on with which I had to head downstairs for breakfast with the family, my bare bottom still aglow with redness from the previous evening's spanking - a fact my younger male cousins were only happy to point out to each other.

During breakfast, my aunt explained that since I had behaved like a little girl, I would continued to be treated and punished like one during my entire extended stay there. That meant not only being subjected to continued disciplinary spankings, but also early bedtimes, supervised baths, no locking of the bathroom door at any time, not being allowed to dress or undress myself and being dressed as if I were still in early middle school!

That last part of the punishment meant I would specifically not be allowed to wear a bra, whether there at the house or anytime when out with my aunt, the only exception being for work (which was also the only time I'd be allowed to wear my "big girl clothes."). This also meant no jeans, no thong panties and no attractive bathing suits (just one-pieces or frilly two-pieces designed for young girls). To emphasis how serious she was, my aunt announced she intended to take me shopping at the mall that day to pick out my "new" wardrobe for my time there.

My measurements are 34-24-35 and I wear a size XS (sometimes S depending on the manufacturer). I had no major difficulty fitting into juniors small size panties, although the coverage in the front and rear was lower than I liked. A girls' size medium stretch cotton bikini panties also fit, once the leg bands were snipped to allow the cotton to rip a bit for more leg room.

T-shirts were too problematic and my aunt decided against a t-shirt and panties only rule for me. But a girls size camisole was less restrictive on the shoulders and arms, thus allowing me to wear a smaller size than even a t-shirt. Of course, embarrassingly, neither the front nor back came down far enough to cover even the top of my panties.

I was told that from that point on whenever I received a spanking during the day for disobedience, back-talk or "make-up" ones (for my past inappropriate behavior that my aunt discovered concerning me colluding with my cousin Mallory to get her brothers punished), the only thing I was permitted to wear around the house until bedtime was the small camisole and panties. It did not matter if guests happened to drop by. Disobeying (such as tying a sweater around my waist or wearing a robe) meant the panties came off for an immediate spanking followed by corner time - and the panties were to stay off for the rest of the day. It only took several instances when that happened for me to obey the camisole and panties only rule. Unfortunately, those instances happened when guests had dropped by - much to my consternation and much to their amusement.

The problem that the camisole would not be long enough to go out shopping at the mall was solved when while standing in the kitchen with two of my younger male cousins present, my aunt pulled off the nightie I was wearing, left the room (leaving me naked in front of my grinning cousins) and returned a few minutes later to hand me an old pair of my younger cousin Mallory's panties. I put them on, but they were tight and only covered the lower half of my bottom while also leaving some of my bush showing in front. Next, my aunt handed me one of my other younger cousin's Megan's old sleep gowns that she wore in pre-teen years, an absolutely horrid, short tiny thing with animals prints all over it. Although it was a sleep gown, it could also marginally pass as a dress. I was then instructed to put on my socks and shoes at nothing else.

Without allowed to wear high heels or make-up and with my hair put into pig-tails, I was horrified! If it were legal, I'd have rather worn a string bikini to the mall. At least I would have looked my age! Instead I neither felt nor looked like it.

When I protested and used some inappropriate language to suggest what the sleep gown looked like, I soon found myself over my aunt's knee, panties at my ankles, for a quick but solid spanking on my already sore bare bottom, much to the delight of my cousins. My vocal protests that I was soon to be seen in public dressed in nothing but my shoes, socks, small pair of panties and the sleep gown ended there.

Listening to the snickering behind me, especially when on the escalators at the mall, was humiliating. Not to mention the smirks from sales clerks who were freely invited into the changing cubicle as my aunt slipped the small gown I was forced to wear up over my head and off, leaving me topless in just the small pair of panties while having me try on various dresses in the juniors' department.

The constant giggling from the two youngest boys who she brought along with us, including into the changing cubicle added to my embarrassment as they were only too happy to blurt out to the sales clerks that I had received a spanking that morning (as if it wasn't obvious enough to them already with the small pair of panties I was forced to wear!).

At least a half dozen times my aunt even paraded me out in the open in front of the half circle of mirrors in the main area of the juniors' department. A number of shoppers snickered at the sight of me with my panties clearly visible, being scolded as I hesitated to turn and let my aunt view the latest thing she had me try on. A few times, a quick lift of whatever dress she had me put on before a sharp slap or two to my butt quickly had me comply while I tried to avoid eye contact with a couple giggling shoppers.

At one juniors' clothing store, she stood there holding the changing cubicle door wide open, since it was too crowded for the four of us to fit into. That other shoppers could get a peak at me didn't concern her in the slightest. She even struck up a conversation with one woman who said she liked the short dress my aunt was having me try on.

The woman asked my aunt, "Where did you find that? I'd like to get one like that for my daughter. She starts junior high next year and is tall just like your girl."

As the small talk continued, it became evident to me the woman thought that I was in junior high as well! I cringed in embarrassment knowing I certainly did not look my age.

At another store, the few cubicles there were occupied so after I was reluctant to do so myself, she simply and nonchalantly lifted up my gown up over my head and handed me a dress designed for a 12-year old to wear, leaving me standing there in nothing but my panties in front of a shocked but soon smirking store clerk. When I tried to hurriedly put on the dress over my head and pull it down to cover my exposed body, I was confounded by it being pinned together near the waist, resulting in complete topless exposure as I struggled with it over my head but not knowing why I couldn't pull it down further.

Another store had a common changing area for girls (with a number of mothers, like my aunt, bringing in young boys). There she left me blushing and standing in nothing but my panties for five or ten minutes at a time as she went back out onto the sales floor to get something else for me to try on.

I know the purpose of the punishment was to treat me like a little girl until I showed my aunt I could again behave like the college grad should behave. But being spanked and punished like that also MADE ME FEEL like a little girl again. As people stared and smirked at me being scolded and talked to like a little girl, and being undressed in front of them without concern for my modesty and knowing that some of them saw that I had recently been spanked, I most certainly felt like I had regressed backwards in time 20 years.

So obviously, I can't deny the effectiveness of the punishment freebooter 48 and the others suggested: that of reducing a teenager or even a college-aged woman to the status of a little girl as part of the discipline dished out. The initial bare bottom spankings are bad enough. But the additional humiliation is what really sinks in the shame.

Should a Teenage Girl or Female College Coed Who Misbehaves Like a Little Girl Be Spanked, Punished and Dressed Like a Little Girl Without Concern for Her Modesty?

18 comments:

  1. If a little humility being dressed in public like that and losing some modesty along with it made you sorry for your behavior, then good for your aunt. Too bad more parents don't make their teenagers tow the line like that. Just like the guy who told you, "Behave like a little girl you will be treated like a little girl."

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  2. Believe me. I was already plenty sorry after just the first bare bottom spanking she gave me!

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  3. I'm assuming this was your stepdad's sister?

    Were they punished this way as children?

    Can you compare and contrast what it was like being spanked by your aunt and your stepdad? Like who spanked harder, which was more humiliating, etc. Also any other similarities and differences. Thanks.

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    1. Actually, no. That is my real dad's sister who punished me as I indicated above. My aunt spanks hard, with her bare hand. She has also employed the "no bra" rule and kid's clothing on her oldest daughter, who is 19. My real dad and his sister were spanked growing up. But from what my mom has told me, my real dad resented it and vowed not to discipline us by spanking.

      On the other hand, his sister feels there is great merit in bare bottom spankings and even fully undressed spankings in front of the family until you move out (or in my case, when I was staying there for an extended period of time). She has since revised her thoughts on that to not spank the boys anymore (two sons, two stepsons.)

      (My stepdad's sister also similarly punished me when I was a teen on occasions when I was required to stay with her family.)

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    2. Can you talk more about the spankings themselves? Like who spanked harder between your step-dad and your aunt, which was more humiliating, etc.

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  4. Whilst the punishment you received was indeed humiliating, it does serve as an example to others. Though making you go out in public like that where people can see that you had been spanked is wrong, being treated like a little girl if you acted in such a way then maybe but not in front of others. If you had committed a serious offence like DUI then maybe as an example to others get spanked in front of them otherwise it shouldn't be. Though it may work as you don't want people seeing you bared and spanked at such a late age, unless of course you have just got used to it even though it is embarrassing.

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  5. Although my punishments weren't as a result of anything near as serious as a DUI, I had been breaking curfew and schemed with my younger female cousins to help them break curfew, too. More than once and also getting caught lying about it.

    She also wanted to make an example of me for her two daughters. There was also the issue of clothes. Since for that extended stay, I only had my regular clothes to punish me like I was a little girl again and dressing me as such meant such clothes were needed.

    I knew my aunt spanked my cousins before I agreed to be subject to disciplinary measures as my aunt would see fit - despite my age - as a condition on staying there for extended periods of time.

    So even though I was spanked bare in front of everyone I can't justifiably complaining about that I was treated no differently than my cousins and I could have avoided being punished by behaving and acting more responsibly.

    I guess at first I didn't realize how irresponsible I had been and didn't really think I'd be spanked, much less quite often.

    The spankings were frequent at first. I wouldn't say I got "used to it" but I can see it being described as knowing what to expect.

    Still, the shopping day at the mall still took me by surprise. If I were a small child in a short dress it would have been noticeable to anyone I had been spanked, particularly on escalators or while trying on clothes.

    Since my aunt said I was behaving irresponsibly like a little girl, I was to be treated like one. But did I really have more of a justification to complain about public embarrassment than some random young girl who may have also been spanked? I'd like to think so, but most of the feedback I have received is sort of that I put myself in that position by being irresponsible and misbehaving.

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  6. Becky Romero said: "During breakfast, my aunt explained that since I had behaved like a little girl, I would continued to be treated and punished like one during my entire extended stay there. That meant not only being subjected to continued disciplinary spankings, but also early bedtimes, supervised baths, no locking of the bathroom door at any time, not being allowed to dress or undress myself and being dressed as if I were still in early middle school! "

    How long did you have to dress like a child, a couple days or more? How did the supervised baths and not being allowed to dress yourself work? You said you only got to wear your adult clothes when working. Does that mean she took you out all the time in public with you dressed like a child? Were you allowed to leave the house in adult clothes or have to dress up at work? What did other people say? What did guests say?

    Would you say that being disciplined like that was more effective in making you understand you misbehaved than say an early curfew or other mild punishment?

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  7. During that particular stay it was on any day I was punished.

    As for the baths and dressing and undressing? My aunt would embarrass me by announcing in front of everyone when it was time for my night time bath. She would lead me upstairs and then, with the bathroom door left completely open, undress me. Needless to say, my younger male cousins made a habit of passing slowly by the door numerous times. And sitting in the bathtub I would be facing the doorway, exposed.

    Not that the exposure made much of a difference, because after my bath and dressed in just panties and a camisole top, I'd soon be back down in the living room for a spanking with those coming off. Then corner time, then bed.

    When going to work I was allowed to dress myself before leaving the house.

    The only times (a handful) I was taken out in public dressed shameful like a child was on punishment days. I protested to no avail. With no makeup, my hair in pig tails, flat sandals instead of heels which would have made me look taller and with animal print cotton panties partially showing, I felt totally ashamed. It was even worse when we ran into friends of hers that I had met previously.

    I can't deny being punished like that made me more sorrowful for my misbehavior. But still... the shame!

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  8. Did your aunt wash you or were you at least permitted to wash yourself while in the bathtub?

    What would happen if you needed to use the toilet at bath time? Did she still leave the door open?

    What did those friends of hers say when they saw you? Did they know how old you were?

    You've written on this blog about teenage girls being humiliated by their parents, such as cutting off their long hair or making them walk in public wearing just a diaper, and you haven't held back in your harsh words against such discipline. You also said you were diapered in public as a teen. Yet, you haven't criticized your aunt like you have those other parents. You even said your diapering was justified. How do you explain that?

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  9. No, StrictDad. Except for my vulva, I was not allowed to wash myself.

    Yes, at bath time the door would be kept open the whole time, even when I needed to use the toilet. Fortunately, that only happened a few times when I only needed to pee. But the door was kept open and with the toilet being right next to the door there was no avoiding the embarrassment when my cousins knew it was my bath time.

    Her friends approved of "teaching me a lesson" though they though I was about my cousin's Mallory's age. They didn't initially know I was in my mid 20s.

    I think cutting off a girl's long hair is abuse because the effects of it (leaving her with much shorter hair) last for years. And unlike a spanking, the effects are quite apparent. (Granted, so too were my spankings when brought to the mall wearing kid's clothing sizes, for my cousin Mallory too, but it wasn't as if we were sent to school dressed that way.)

    As for my diapering, it wasn't a punishment. I had peed myself in the car - twice. I had no spare clothing with me and I concede I needed to be diapered for the remainder of the drive until we got to our destination. I didn't like it, obviously, but I think there's a difference between it being needed and being a punishment.

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  10. Becky said: "there was no avoiding the embarrassment when my cousins knew it was my bath time."

    Did your cousins ever take advantage of the situation by arranging for their friends to be over at bath time? I would think the temptation to humiliate you further would be too great for them to resist.

    Additionally, did your Aunt ever have guests or neighbors over during your bath time? If so were you allowed to close the door at those times? Surely you Aunt would have made an exception to that open door rule if her friends or neighbors were over- given the proximity of the bathroom to the front door and main living area of the house..

    If not did you Aunt ever publicly embarrass you further after they spotted you naked in the bath by bringing up your punishment and go into to detail about it all with these essentially total strangers?

    That would seem to be an effective deterrent against future problems with you in her care.

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    1. Hi, Hooked6. Fortunately, although my cousins did make sure to occasionally have friends over when they knew I would be spanked, that didn't happen those times when my punishment included supervised baths.

      However, I didn't always avoid such embarrassment when guests were over at my aunt's house. Nor did I avoid the embarrassment of my aunt explaining to guests why I was being punished.

      The bathroom with the tub was upstairs so ordinarily that meant most guests would not witness me being bathed. But it also meant the door still had to stay open.

      There were a few instances when relatives on her husband's side of the family were there.

      One time, my male cousins eagerly brought their two male cousins upstairs. And sure enough, I was naked on the toilet for a pee.

      Another time, after suffering the embarrassment of guests (friends of hers) being told I was being punished, after my bath she made me go back downstairs in just a short camisole and panties to say "goodnight" to everyone. Twenty minutes earlier I had thought at least I wouldn't have to face those total strangers I had just met again. And now I had to say "goodnight" to them half-undressed as though I was a child.

      Another time other relatives of her husband were not only visiting, but staying over several nights. Their plane was late so I was happy (as well as my cousin Mallory) that our spankings and corner time weren't observed earlier.

      But unfortunately the plane wasn't late enough to avoid them arriving at the house just as "bath time" started.

      With the guest bedrooms upstairs, there was no avoiding the shame of her husband's brother and sister-in-law and their two young teenage kids (a boy and an older girl) being given the house tour by my aunt's husband - and yes, that included the upstairs bathroom while I was sitting in the tub facing the doorway as my aunt washed my hair. Talk about making a bad first impression!

      But despite such embarrassments, perhaps I was fortunate in that supervised baths as a punishment were rare and only used perhaps less than a dozen times.

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  11. Becky wrote: "But despite such embarrassments, perhaps I was fortunate in that supervised baths as a punishment were rare and only used perhaps less than a dozen times."

    A DOZEN TIMES?! Am I understanding you correctly? Does that mean a dozen DIFFERENT naked bath punishments . . . as in you screwed up almost 12 times - TWELVE different episodes of misbehavior that brought about yet another naked supervised bath punishment?

    Oh how marvelously ingenious of your aunt! You MUST tell us what happened. Can you share some details of what you did to get punished like that again?

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  12. What I meant was that I had a supervised bath about a dozen times. Not a dozen different times punished that way. For example, when my aunt's brother-in-law's family was visiting, I had just happened to be punished that weekend they were visiting, so that was several baths right there as part of one punishment.

    But, as I said, thankfully such punishments were rare and were only over the course of basically one summer, 2012. It was when my aunt discovered in my older cousin Mallory's diary that I had suggested to her that she use 'bath time' as a way of shaming her younger brothers/step-brothers to behave.

    And she did, up to about a year earlier for the two young ones and around 3-5 years earlier for the older ones.

    Mallory had written in her diary in 2007, when she was 13:

    ''Tried cousin Becky's suggestion to supervise the boys' baths when mom has me sit them. She was right. Made them docile for 2 weeks! So funny watching them try to hide their little weenies while sitting in the tub! LOL''

    So because I had encouraged Mallory to do that, and because Mallory had noted in her diary that she had sometimes let her younger sister and even her girlfriends 'accidentally' walk in the bathroom while the boys were naked, I got punished along with her and was subjected to the same lack of privacy to teach me a lesson.

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  13. Thanks for correcting my misunderstanding.

    As I said earlier, and your post above confirms it - VERY INGENIOUS of your Aunt to use such psychology to teach you a lesson. I have to hand it to her. I suppose it was effective, right? Though, given your rather forceful and self-assured personality (and that's a compliment btw) I suspect that might be debatable.

    Thanks for the added information about Mallory. I found it revealing.

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  14. '' I suppose it was effective, right? Though, given your rather forceful and self-assured personality (and that's a compliment btw) I suspect that might be debatable. "

    Which is why she did it to me MULTIPLE times and sometimes without warning - to ASSURE its continued effectiveness even AFTER it clearly had achieved its mark.

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