It read, in part:
"12-14 is the ideal age for a boy to watch a college-age girl receive a spanking, both in terms of the embarrassment it causes her and the educational value it brings him.Damn! Reading that hit home hard! Did it ever basically describe how I felt being spanked in front of my younger brother (and his friends, which included boys I regularly babysat!) when my stepdad began spanking me at age 16.
"As mentioned before a good dose of humiliation creates a win-win situation. For the girl it increases the unpleasantness of her punishment . . .
"... she starts kicking wildly her legs and when she ends the show with an undignified bouncing around, furiously rubbing her bottom and pushing forward a bushy triangle as a sign of total surrender. . .
"But for a young lady the worst witnesses of her spankings, I am reliably told, are younger boys. Aarrrgh, that smirk on their faces as you are being scolded: what girl wouldn’t want to scratch these off with iron nails? The sniggering as she is doing corner time with panties at half-mast. . .
"... A big girl, who was looking down on the bratty, nerdy, pervy little pests, but, look, who is laughing now?"
Those shameful spankings left me feeling far much more like a little girl in pre-school barely out of diapers with no need for any modesty to be afforded to her (and which wasn't) than being an often impertinent teenage girl in high school heading into 11th grade with a driver's license.
One minute I'd be arguing with my stepdad, the next I'd be over his lap with my bottom bared.
Once my spanking began I would soon be reduced to crying and babbling incoherently, which was embarrassing on its own let alone the shame that hit me knowing I was displaying everything as my legs kicked about from the pain.
But the shame was quickly overtaken by the pain as the repeated hard slaps to my bare bottom quickly received my full concentration.
When my spanking was over, whether it be five or ten minutes or how ever many minutes later, I couldn't help but stand there - bottomless - as I hopped about on my feet rubbing my sore bottom, not even trying to cover myself.
If all my clothes were removed (as often was the case), I would effectively be reduced to a crying, naked, jiggling spectacle - on full display for whoever happened to be present at the time.
Just like a pre-school girl barely out of diapers, modesty was not a consideration for me. And the worst thing about that? My own worries about my modesty would take a back seat to the spanking itself, too, because I essentially WAS FEELING like a pre-school girl barely out of diapers as boys years younger than me laughed and giggled and snickered and made me feel quite inferior in age to them. This would be especially humbling and humiliating when boys who were friends of my younger brother and/or whom I routinely babysat were present to witness my punishment.
Any corner time given to me with my red bare bottom on display (and sometimes everything else, too) only solidified my degradation and shame.
You obviously must have misbehaved badly as a teenager to have earned such punishments.
ReplyDeleteYou obviously deserved some punishment. We all have to dine on crow once in a while. So stop fucking whining and get on with your life.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing that really matters is whether the spankings were effective. If you went from not listening to your parents, arguing and being impertinent to quickly feeling like, in your own words, "a pre-school girl barely out of diapers", then it would seem that they were.
ReplyDeleteBecky, I have read that you frequently humiliated boys you were babysitting by using bath time as a punishment, even letting their younger sisters get educational views of their naked brothers' bodies.
ReplyDeleteQuestion -- how do you suppose those same young boys felt when all your clothes came off and they were treated to watching you cry and wiggle your bare ass in pain as you were spanking with them getting quite an education view of a naked teenage girl's body?
I didn't humiliate boys when I babysat them. Giving them or making sure they took their baths was often part of my responsibilities as a babysitter.
DeleteAs for my spankings, on those occasions when it so happened that boys who I was babysitting saw me being punished, it was extremely embarrassing and quite humbling.
Most young boys in the 7-13 age group don't like being, what they perceive to be, as being "bossed around" by an older teenage girl. So although I got along with all the kids I babysat, their giggles and teasing left me no doubt that the handful of boys whom I regularly babysat who saw me spanked enjoyed immensely watching their teenage babysitter stripped and hauled over my stepdad's lap for my painful bare bottom spankings.
That I had no control over them seeing everything while I was reduced from their ''bossy'' teenage babysitter to a crying, naked, jiggling spectacle in front of their eyes only added to my intense shame, a feeling which inevitably came over me each time I saw them or had to babysit them from then on.
I applaud your stepdad for not letting political correctness interfere in properly disciplining you. Having you fully naked is indeed the proper way and most effective way to spank spoiled brats like you.
ReplyDeleteJust as a ''pre-school girl barely out of diapers'' doesn't wear a bra and no one thinks anything of it, removing yours is to help reinforce the point that you were acting like a ''pre-school girl barely out of diapers" and haven't the right to dress up like a big girl until you've demonstrated you can behave like one.
That you feel embarrassment and shame once you are spanked like that is good, however. It shows that you are recognizing that you've done something wrong. Disciplining you like that "pre-school girl barely out of diapers'' merely is to help you recognize your poor, immature behavior. That means no panties, no bra and no covering up.
Of course changing the behavior of misbehaving girls like you won't be achieved with just one spanking alone. Once your shame is great enough to actually influence your behavior consistently, not just saying a stream of ''sorry's" while you're being spanked, you should find yourself no longer being spanked because you'll start acting like a well-behaved teenager instead of a little child.
I agree. A teenage girl who behaves like a child should be dressed like a child.
DeleteIf Becky were my daughter and behaved like I've read she has, I'd take away all her big girl clothes and donate them to charity. That would mean all her bras, thongs, bikini-style panties, two-piece bathing suits, pants, long dresses, hose, tube tops and any tops that showed cleavage. No make-up either. She'd retain a couple outfits for school (or if she wore a school uniform, all the better). But beyond that, nothing.
Then I'd dress her in cotton panties that had a cartoon figure. Something like a 5 or 6 year old would wear, along with a skirt short enough that they showed. A simple top, again maybe something with a kid's cartoon figure on it.
Then I would take her to the mall on consecutive busy weekends to go shopping to buy several outfits similar to that which I dressed her in. She would continue to wear little girls' clothes for several months everywhere but at school at least until her behavior showed a marked improvement.
Of course, she'd be spanked in the nude whether guests were present or not. If she was foolish enough to misbehave in front of them then it must indicate she has the self-modesty concerns as a small child too, which is to say no modesty concerns.
Becky, you're lucky you're not one of my teenage daughters. Like Paula said, you'd be wearing nothing but little girls' clothes in public for several months. Short dresses that are cute and frilly with your panties showing even when you were standing up straight. Spankings would be after dinner time in the living room after which you'd stand, panties down, with your nose in the corner until bedtime (which would be 8pm).
DeleteJackie, I do know that feeling. Thankfully not for several months though. My aunt disciplined me similarly when I was staying with her. Even more humiliating for me was this was after college.
DeleteWould you tell us some of those stories?
DeleteI would like to second Myron's request. Can you write about your aunt disciplining you.
DeleteBecky, many of the links on your home page do not work. Also, can you talk more about your spankings? Did your stepfather rub your butt in between spanks, or ever rest his hand on your bare butt? Also, can you describe more of your specific spankings in detail?
ReplyDeleteHi, Myron. No, my stepdad did not rub my bottom between the swats. As for resting his hand on my bare bottom, not really. Not it the sense if you are asking was he fondling my butt. His swats were hard and really stung and if he didn't immediately lift his hand I don't think anything was meant by it. (As for the links, yes, I know; some pages are still saved as drafts until I proof-read my writing, etc.)
DeleteI second Myron's request, I would also like to hear more details about why and how you were spanked while babysitting. What could have possibly merited a babysitter being spanked in front of the boy she was babysitting?
DeleteSome of the boys whom I regularly babysat were friends of my younger brother (his age or a few years younger). There were times when those boys would be at our house to play with my brother (I wasn't babysitting them specifically at those times. When I babysat, most of the time it was at the homes of those boys' parents)
DeleteMy stepdad didn't care about my modesty, reputation or the shame I felt being spanked in front of anyone who was present. So if a friend of my younger brother's was present, that boy saw me spanked.
Over the course of nearly a year while I was 16 and 17, some half dozen pre-teen/barely teenage boys whom I had occasionally or regularly babysat (and continued to do so) saw me spanked. They saw me cry. They saw me bared. They saw me totally humiliated and shamed.
That must have been embarrassing for you. Did they ever tease you about it when you babysat them after you were spanked in front of them? If so, how did you respond to them?
ReplyDeleteTease me? Did they ever! I felt "owned."
ReplyDeleteRespond? Beyond blushing there was nothing I could do. Scolding them for anything only led to them smirking and more teasing - and more blushing for me.
One set of twin 13-year old boys I babysat teased me so bad they made me start to cry, especially when they said they were going to tell all their friends. Which made it ever more humiliating when I actually had to plead with them to stop.
The price? They told me they'd consider it only if "you behave yourself for the rest of the night." They accused me of having been too strict over the previous year and they said:
1. No TV for me
2. No cell phone
3. Had to stand in a corner for an hour (just as I had punished them one time)
When I protested about being told to stand in the corner in order for them to simply stop teasing me, they actually threatening me with a spanking.
That was enough to get me to comply. In the corner I stood (ironically, they behaved better than usual that night probably because they were enjoying my embarrassment too much for them to get rowdy, argue and otherwise misbehave).
WOW! So the babysitter ended up being babysat by the boys. They were some devious lads taking advantage of you like that. Especially the one who threatened to spank you. Can you imagine if they had actually followed through with that and gave you spanking. You would have been the most popular babysitter in the neighborhood!
ReplyDeleteI didn't want to take any chances. I was babysitting them part of the weekend and had already (shamefully) been sent upstairs to get ready for bed and was in pj's.
ReplyDeleteWhen I told them "no way" was I going to stand in the corner like a little child and that if they didn't stop teasing me, they'd be standing in the corner not me, one of them tripped me when I started to walk away.
I landed half over his brother's knee and soon felt my pj bottoms being slid off my hips. Knowing what would be sliding off next, I was soon VERY agreeable to standing in the corner until what time THEY decided they wanted to go sleep.
Thankfully, they relented - even though I was at that point in no position to overpower them had they decided otherwise.
So in the corner I stood, hands on my head, pj bottoms at my ankles (yes, I had my panties on and up), until they finished their stupid Nintendo game.
Of course, within a few days one of the boys still told his friends he had seen me getting spanked on my bare bottom by my stepdad.
What happened to you is the dream of every boy who has been bossed around unfairly by a snobbish, arrogant, know-it-all, teenage girl babysitter.
ReplyDeleteWhat happened after they finished playing Nintendo? Did they let you pull your bottoms back up?
Yes, they let me pull my bottoms back up since that was the deal, not that I was in any position to hold them to it.
ReplyDeleteEverything mostly went ok the next day until I feel asleep on the couch in the afternoon watching TV and woke up with my feet tied together by the little rascals and then had my hands grabbed behind me and tied as soon as I sat up.
Then things really started to suck after that.
What happened after they had you restrained and you were at their mercy?
ReplyDeleteTurnabout is fair play. You punished them, so don't expect any mercy when they are in a position to give you some payback. Hope they spanked your bottom and enjoyed your embarrassment!
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